Complaints and Conflict

Philippians 2:14-16 (NKJV)

Do all things without complaining and disputing, that you may become blameless and harmless, children of God without fault in the midst of a crooked and perverse generation, among whom you shine as lights in the world, holding fast the word of life, so that I may rejoice in the day of Christ that I have not run in vain or labored in vain.

While complaining and constantly arguing with others rarely ever brings us the joy we seek, it's something we get caught in so often. Most of us feel a strong need to defend ourselves and look out for our needs and desires. However, when we pursue a life only concerning our needs and disregard the needs of others, we find we rob not only others of joy but also ourselves. It's so tempting to act on impulse and complain and argue and push to get what we need, because that's what is at the forefront of so many of our minds. I know I am very guilty of causing conflict because things didn't go the way I planned, and it's something I still struggle with today. Here in God's word He challenges us to do something so counter-cultural. He calls us to be humble peacemakers in a world at war built on pride. Selfish arguments and endless violent wars have caused a vast darkness to settle on the world. God calls us to surrender our selfish ambitions and give up our whining and disputing that God may overcome us and work in us. As we are humbled and overwhelmed in the light and power of God, God shines His light to the world through us and provides a hope to the world through peace.

Open up to God about any arguments or tension you've been involved in lately. Come to God with the frustration you felt and how the outcome of the conflict affected you and others. If you feel God leading you, forgive those who have debated against you and give all the conflict over to God. In doing so, God will renew you and fill you will His light as you empty yourself of any darkness that the tension has caused within you.

I pray that God's word would cause a peace to settle over you as He makes way for peace around you. I hope everyone has a wonderful day!

Madelynn